If you are thinking about proposing to your special someone but wasn’t able to do it over the holidays, don’t worry you’re not alone. The Christmas Holiday is by far one of the most popular times to propose, but it can also be the most stressful. Here are 10 quick tips to make your everyday non-holiday proposal wicked awesome.
1. Now that Christmas and New Year’s are over, the next available holiday is Valentine’s Day. Seems like the next best choice right?! I’m going to go ahead and just say it…. Please don’t. Unless it is your significant other’s ultimate wish, I do not suggest proposing on this day. Think about it this way: What could you do/give/say on this day for the rest of your life to live up to those 4 little words: “Will you marry me?” Gift giving and making this day special in the future will be significantly harder after a proposal.
2. Plan it out. A little research goes a long way in making this day the day they have always dreamed about. (Oh heyyyy there Pinterest!)
3. If you plan far enough in advance hire a photographer. Yes, mom/dad/brother/sister/bff will be more than happy to hide in a bush while you pop the question, but unless they are 100% sure they know their way around a high quality camera, I would spend some dough on a professional. Plus if your S.O. is happy with their clothing/hair/makeup you could get away with not having engagement photos taken. The smile on both your faces of being in the moment will trump anything.
4. Know your S.O.’s style. If they aren’t into sports don’t propose in the stadium. Utilize their individuality and incorporate it into how you ask.
5. Personalize it. Many places will help you in your quest with things like personal menu’s, place cards, etc. These personal touches make great souvenirs.
6. The ring. Many couples when they are at the “next step” point in their relationship have the ring talk. Make sure to listen! If you haven’t had that talk then research research research! Their bff, mom, dad, brother, sister, anyone who you know can and will help you keep this secret will help you immensely. Get more than one person’s opinion. You want your S.O. to be proud of their ring, while it is also a statement of who they are and who you are together. I love this clip from SATC; it sums up quite a bit about ring choices and knowing your S.O.’s personality.
7. Talk to their parent/guardian or whomever they hold in that “parent” esteem. Not only will they appreciate the old fashion-ness of the gesture, it also tells your S.O. that you care about their love for them.
8. If you feel ready to “take the plunge” but are unsure your S.O. is, talk to them first! Nothing will hurt more than planning, ring buying, and asking for their hand more than a “No.” Trust me it will still be a surprise to them when the time comes.
9. Buy the ring. Read up on the 4 C’s, it will help you not become overwhelmed while shopping. Many jewelers offer these nifty business cards will all the information you need. Educate yourself on the different styles of cuts. Most people know about round and princess cut, but there are many others! Shop around. Don’t be a afraid to visit several jewelry stores before making a choice, and don’t feel like you have to go with a “big box” store either. Many local family jewelers offer sales and the personal attention you may want/need during this time.
10. Don’t be afraid to ask for help! If you have an idea but need help to execute it, then by all means ask! Your frat buddies, sorority sisters, her work bff, his bff; everyone will be more than willing to lend a helping hand witnessing love in its truest, finest moments.